Minggu, 22 Juni 2014

how to make a friendship

Here are some ways to create and cultivate lasting friendships:
Be you. The greatest gift you can give to others is you—the real you. So, pull off your mask and be authentic!
Be friendly.  you have to be a friend to have a friend.
Be giving. What can you do for another that will make their life better?
Be encouraging. The kind words you have for others are a balm for their soul. Spread them liberally.
Be interesting. Cultivate yourself so you have something to share with others. Read. Travel. Learn.
Be loyal. Through thick and thin, be loyal to your friend. From their best moments to their worst, stick by your friend’s side.
Be enriching. A true friend adds value to others by having a lifestyle of value.
Be understanding. Seek first to understand your friend. Then you can help them understand you.
Be direct. If misunderstandings arise, tackle them head-on with gentle honesty. Never let a disagreement fester and damage a friendship.
Be accepting. Just because someone is different from you doesn’t mean you can’t find common ground on which to build a firm friendship. Go outside your “zone” to find friends.
Be flexible. People’s lives ebb and flow. So do friendships. Let it be okay to have changing degrees of closeness with your friends.
Be available. Our busy lives make time a very precious commodity. Schedule regular time with friends and stay in contact via email, text, or phone calls.
Be a listener. Truly listen to your friend. Don’t spend their talking time framing what you’re going to say next.
Be fun. The more fun you share with others, the more fun you have.
Be positive. People like to be around someone who makes them feel better, not someone who poisons their time together with toxic negativity.
Be honest. When a friend’s actions or decisions scare you, share your heart in a non-judgmental way. If not you, then who?
Be dependable. Don’t let your friends down—ever.
Be appreciative. Tell your friends how much they mean to you. You may think they already know this, but a verbal affirmation every so often makes sure they do.
Be respectful. You and your friends may not have the same likes and dislikes in people, politics, or passions.  Be respectful of these differences.
Be considerate. Give your friends space and be accepting of their time with family and other friends.
Be supportive. Cheer friends on when they “win,” cry with them when they “lose,” and laugh with them when either of you do something stupid.
Building a lasting friendship is not easy. If you are authentic and are willing to open yourself up to others, you will find that there are many people who are looking for a good friend. So, if you haven’t already, take the time to invest in friendships. They may be your lifelines one day, and you may be one for them.

Selasa, 22 April 2014

5W + 1H, Yes/No Question and Tag Questions

1. 5W + 1H    : An Effective Approach to Collecting and Presenting Key

Information Question (5W+1H)

The questions answered in the lead of a conventional newspaper article: who, what, when, where, why and how. Information questions are also called "Wh-" questions because many of the words that are used to ask this type of question begin with Wh-.

The 5Ws + H formula has been attributed to English rhetorician Thomas Wilson, who introduced the method in his discussion of the "seven circumstances" of medieval rhetoric
To be a journalist 5W 1H is very important, especially to write "lede" (some call it "leads") news, which is a paragraph (or two paragraphs) opening news. In approximately 35-40 words, should insert the 5W 1H. It was in the news writing.


B. The Basic Approach
This approach seeks to answer six basic questions in gathering information about nearly any subject: Who, What, When, Where, Why, and How. Sometimes, depending on the context, a second “H” might be used: How Much. In journalism, news story writing requires that the questions to be answered take a basic form:
1. Who is it about?
2. What is it about?
3. When did it happen?
4. Where did it happen?
5. Why did it happen?
6. How did it happen?
Applying the 5W1H framework to other types of writing or investigation takes some interpretation. The order in which the answers to the questions is presented may vary, but the “what” is usually addressed first.

- What
In journalism, the “what” identifies an event and is often stated in the “lead (or lede),” the first paragraph of a news story. The “what” is the primary subject, the reason the information is being gathered and presented. Apart from journalism, it may be stated in a title and in a purpose statement. The “what” may need to be defined, a process that may comprise the remainder of a document. Example :    What, specifically,…?

- Who
A news story identifies who an event involves. The “who” may be part of the lede, and could be the reason the story is news worthy. In other contexts, the “who” identifies the persons or groups the “what” concerns. It might describe the audience of a document, or those who are affected by a policy, process or procedure. Example :    Who benefits?

- When
A key part of a news story is describing when an event happened. Answering the “when” indicates any time sensitivity related to the “what.” It may be part of an instruction regarding the proper point at which a action should be taken. Sometimes it may be part of an “If…then” scenario of conditional action. Example :    When will it start/end?

- Where
A news story reports the location at which an event took place. The “where” describes a geographical or physical location of importance to the “what.” At times, the where may be less important than other factors. Example :    Where are you?

- Why
The “why” is usually the most neglected of the questions in the framework. News stories often lack information from authoritative sources to explain the “why.” In other contexts, the “why” may be considered irrelevant, particularly when describing a policy or procedure decreed by an organizational authority. Efforts to ascertain and explain the “why” may help those affected be more accepting of any change the “what” requires. Example :    Why does that happen?

- How
For journalists, determining how an event took place may be nearly as challenging as explaining the “why,” although more effort is usually put to satisfying the question. When describing policies, processes or procedures, the how may be the most important part of the effort. A considerable appetite for understanding how to do something can be found across audiences. Sometimes effort focuses on the “what” when more work should be devoted to explaining the “how.” Example :    How much?

Conclusion:
The 5W1H framework can be applied to any topic at any level of granularity to gather, analyze and present information from the simplest to the most complex. Attributed to a Rudyard Kipling poem, 5W1H is the place to start and may be enough to take you to the finish.




2. Yes/No Question

The answers for simple questions in English are "Yes,","No," or "I don't know" (or its equivalent). The answers for information questions are varied--because they are used to ask about specific kinds of information.
There are 2 types of interrogative sentence in English (question words), namely:  
a.       The WH question words 
b.      Yes or no questions

Yes-no question can be made by changing the declarative sentence (statement). You have to know which one subject, the main verb (not followed by any verb), and helping / auxiliary verb (primary auxiliary verb / capital). Brief explanation is as follows.

Examples and Observations:
Homer: Are you an angel?
Moe    : Yes, Homer. All us angels wear Farrah slacks.
(The Simpsons)
“Directing a movie is a very overrated job, we all know it. You just have to say ‘yes’ or ‘no.’ What else do you do? Nothing. ‘Maestro, should this be red?’ Yes. ‘Green?’ No. ‘More extras?’ Yes. ‘More lipstick?’ No. Yes. No. Yes. No. That’s directing.” (Judi Dench as Liliane La Fleur in Nine, 2009).
Principal McGee: Are you just going to stand there all day?
Sonny: No ma’am. I mean, yes ma’am. I mean, no ma’am.
Principal McGee: Well, which is it?
Sonny: Um, no ma’am.
(Eve Arden and Michael Tucci in Grease, 1978)
The yes-no question is found in three varieties: the inverted question, the typical exemplar of this kind; the inverted question offering an alternative (which may require more than a simple yes or no for an answer); and the tag question:
Are you going? (inversion)
Are you staying or going? (inversion with alternative)
You’re going, aren’t you? (tag)

3. Tag Questions
in a tag question, the speaker makes a statement, but is not completely certain of the truth, so he or she uses a tag question to verify the previous statement. Sentences using tag questions should have the main clause separated from the tag by a comma. The sentence will always end a question mark.Example:
1. There are only twenty-eight days in February, aren’t there?
2. It’s raining now, isn’t it?
3. The boys don’t have class tomorrow, do they?
4. You and i talked with the professor yesterday, didn’t we?
5. Jill and Joe have been to Mexico, haven’t they?

Jumat, 14 Maret 2014

Grammar



Explanation of Subject, Verb, Complement and Modifier..
1. Subject
The subject is the agent of the sentence in the active voice; it is the person or thing that performs or is responsible for the action of the sentence and it normally precedes the verb.

2. Verb
The verb follows the subject in a declarative sentence; it generally shows the action of the sentence.

3. Modifier
A modifier tells the time, place or manner of the action. Very often it is a prepositional phrase. A prepositional phrase is a group of words that begins with a preposition and ends with a noun.

4. Complement.
A complement completes the verb. It is similar to the subject because it is usually a noun or noun phrase; however, it generally follows the verb when the sentence is in the active voice.


Example:
1.
Bianka is playing a bike in the garden.
(
Bianka = Subject | is playing = verb phrase | a bike = complement | in the garden = modifier of place)

2.
Mr. Takura is teaching math this morning.
(
Mr. Takura = Subject | is teaching = verb phrase | math = complement | this morning = modifier of time)

3.
Celia have visited the president in his house.
(
Celia = Subject | have visited = verb phrase | the president = complement | in his house = modifier of place)

4.
Bobby reading a comic in the bed.
(
Bobby = Subject | reading  = verb phrase |a comic = complement | in the bed = modifier of place | today = modifier of time)

5.
Donni  played a ball at the field last night.
(
Donni = Subject | played = verb | a ball = complement | at the field= modifier of place | last night = modifier of time)

  • Pronouns
 
There are five forms of pronouns in english; subject pronouns, complement pronouns (object pronouns), possessive pronouns, possessive adjectives and reflexive pronouns.
1. Subject Pronouns
Subject pronouns occur in the subject position of a sentence or after the verb be.
Verbs: I, you, he, she, it, they, we 
Example: I am playing a ball
2. Complement Pronouns
Complement pronouns occur in complement position, whether they complement a verb or a preposition.
Verbs: me, you, him, her, it, us, you, them
Example: Rico called me on the phone.
3. Possessive Adjectives
Possessive adjectives are not the same as possessive pronouns. These simply modify, rather than replace, nouns; possessive pronouns replace nouns. Possessive forms indicate ownership.
Verbs: my, your, his, her, its, our, your, their
Example: Paul is washing his car.
4. Possessive Pronouns
These pronouns cannot precede a noun. They are pronouns and thus replace the noun. The noun is understood from the context and is not repeated.
NOTE:
mine = my + noun; for example, my car.
yours = your + noun; for example, your car.
hers = her + noun; for example, her car.
Verbs: mine, yours, his, hers, its, ours, yours, theirs.
Example: This is your car = This is yours
5. Reflexive Pronouns
These pronouns usually follow the verb and indicate that the subject is both giving and receiving the action.
Verbs: myself, yourself, himself, herself, itself, ourselves, yourselves, themselves.
Example: his mother bought him a new car = John bought himself a new car.

Rabu, 15 Januari 2014

Reply of letters

A. Inquiry Letter





Hotel Cempaka
Puncak pass  Bogor 11580
March 3rd 2012
General Manager
Hotel Cempaka
Bogor
West Java
Dear Mr.Abraham Lennon
Thank you for your inquiry letter of 1st march 2012 
As requsted,
we will set up a special room for your seminars at our hotel with a capacity of 200 people providing space complete with  an electric socket for overhead projector, Screen and Wi-Fi Network.  
Thank you for your trust to us

yours sincerely,
Mr. Fernandes
General Manager 



2. Order Letter
PT. Fashionable
Glodok 
Jakarta
September 8, 2019
Purchase Manager 
PT. Super Fashion
Depok Lama Street
Depok
Sub: Confirmation of Letter dated September 7, 2019.
we thank you for the shirt T-shirt orders to our company. we will send you order T-shir on demand. we will send a T-shirt sizes 35,34,40. using a truck to your company.
Thank you for your cooperation, we also hope to establish business cooperation for a long time.

With best regards
Yours faithfully

Jones Iskanda
Sales Manager
PT. Fashionable


3. Complain Letter



19 August 2009

London Toys Ltd.
Accident street 216820
England
London

Thank you for your attention to remind us of the delivery of goods that have been shipped. we also apologize for the shortcomings of the dominoes. 8000 we will immediately send dominoes together to your place as soon as possible.


4. Application Letter




Mrs. Patricia
Unity Company
87 Delaware Road
Hatfield, CA 08065
(909) 555-
678910




 Dear Mrs. Stacy:
We appreciate your interest for the programmer position advertised in the Times Union. We are reviewing applications currently and expect to schedule interviews in the next couple of weeks. If you are selected for an interview, you can expect a phone call from our Human Resources staff shortly.

Thank you, again, for your interest in our company. We do appreciate the time you invested in this application.
Regards,
Mrs.Patricia
Personnel Manager